my take: Whoa. This was a tough one. The first few chapters had the book chicks emailing to see if we were going to actually read this. The woman in question has quite the fowl mouth and is into porn ...
Those of us who pressed on were rewarded with an interesting take on issues ... weddings, marriage, and other Feminist subjects. This woman's take on the current state of Feminism gave us lots to discuss. Some stuff we agreed with her on ... and some not. Lively, to say the least.
Definitely one of those books that got better by discussing. Since our discussion, I've referenced the book several times and been pleasantly surprised how many times the topics are referenced in other things I read.
my source: Book chicks pick - leave it to Patty
my verdict: hard core, worth a read